When the Timing Feels Right: Choosing the Perfect Moment to Become a Surrogate
Surrogacy is an incredibly rewarding experience for both the intended parents and the surrogate. However, like any pregnancy, surrogacy can have its challenges, and it’s important to start this journey when you’re physically and mentally ready. There’s not necessarily a “perfect” moment to apply to become a surrogate, but there are factors to consider that can help you make the right decision at the right time.
Surrogacy Factors to Consider
How do you know when it’s the right time to become a surrogate? Age, health, lifestyle, and finances all come into play when considering a surrogacy journey.
- Age: Different surrogacy agencies have varying age requirements, but generally, surrogates should be between the ages of 21 and 40.
- Health: Surrogates should be in good health. Part of being in the right physical condition includes having already had your own child, so that you already understand and can better prepare for the pregnancy process.
- Lifestyle: Surrogacy requires having a stable lifestyle and a strong support system.
- Finances: It’s important to be financially stable before applying to be a surrogate. While surrogates are generously compensated for their time and effort, monetary gain shouldn't be the primary reason for wanting to help another family in need.
Additionally, you should feel ready, which can be different for everyone. Some women just feel in their hearts that the time is right and that they're being called to surrogacy. Others may not have considered surrogacy before but want to step in for a family member or friend who’s struggling with their fertility.
Understanding the Surrogacy Process
Before submitting an application, it’s essential to understand how the surrogacy process works and what is and isn’t expected from you throughout each step, from embryo transfer to delivery. When you apply to a surrogacy agency, they’ll review your records and begin the prescreening process, which typically includes a psychological exam.
After you match with the intended parents, you’ll meet with their physician for a consultation and medical evaluation to ensure a healthy pregnancy. Once you're medically cleared, you’ll work alongside the intended parents and lawyers who specialize in reproductive law to review your legal contract, as well as your rights and obligations. At this point, you can begin the in vitro fertilization (IVF) process and hopefully become pregnant.
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Surrogacy can be a lengthy process, complete with physical and emotional challenges. However, most surrogates agree that these obstacles are well worth it to help a family in need achieve their dreams of having a child. When you’re ready to become a surrogate, West Coast Surrogacy is here to help you. Our experienced team can guide you through each step of this journey and answer any questions you may have along the way. Contact us today to learn more or apply here.
